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Solicitor

You can ask a solicitor to negotiate with your partner for you, either directly or through your partner's solicitor. Your solicitor may still suggest that you try mediation to settle a particular issue between you.

The internet and your local telephone book will have a list of solicitors you could approach.

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Courts

You can also apply to the court to settle your dispute for you. However, the court will also encourage you to reach agreement between yourselves if at all possible. If you have not already done so, the court may suggest that you try mediation.

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Mediation

If you wish to avoid ending up in court with your partner, there are alternatives. If you are thinking about divorce, civil partnership dissolution or splitting up with your partner, mediation may help you reach agreement on issues such as your children’s care and splitting property and finance.

You can ask a trained mediator to act as an impartial third party; they will help you come to an agreement without bias or being on anyone’s ‘side’. You can find mediation services in your area by calling the Family Mediation Helpline on 0845 60 26 627, or by visiting the Family Mediation Helpline website.

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